Reading his 'not interested' signals
So you think you've found your dream guy, but your would-be Adonis isn't asking you out.
Should you linger by the phone, waiting for the day that he calls? Or should you just face the facts that he's not The One and move on until you find the dreamboat who is?
Well, it's probably obvious which course of action you should take, but many girls fail to do so and don't read the signals that he's not besotted with you.
This attitude among lots of girls led Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo to write the famous book He's Just Not That Into You ? a frank advice book, which urges girls to not waste time with Mr Wrongs.
Girls come up with a whole host of reasons why their would-be beau isn't showing any interest. These excuses include the thought that maybe he's shy, maybe he is nervous, maybe he's waiting for the right moment. Girls refuse to address the fact that maybe he's not showing any interest because he's just not interested.
Here are a few pointers from the book for those who can't read the signals that their love is unrequited:
? An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship"
? Don't get tricked into asking him out. If he likes you, he'll do the asking
? If you can find him, then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will
? Just because you like to lead doesn't mean he wants to dance
? Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone
? You are good enough to be asked out
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