You love meeting new people by chatting to them online, but you're not so keen on feeling insecure before the first time you hook up? Don't worry-everyone feels the same, even guys.

When it comes to meeting somebody for the first time, almost everyone worries about the way they look, and wants to look attractive.

But placing too much importance on the book's cover before you've seen what's inside could mean you miss out.

Having been engaged to the, quite frankly, gorgeous Ben Affleck, few would have though that Jennifer Lopez would end up marrying the leaner, and less obvious looking Marc Anthony.

But J-Lo's husband told Star of his dating strategy: "My father said to me, 'Son, you're ugly. If you want women to like you, you must work on your personality.'"

Despite this, it takes three seconds for us humans to assess someone's appearance when we first meet them-not at all long enough for them to be blown away by our wit and brains!

So to really make an impact in those few first moments, be sure to appear confident and relaxed-this gives a positive first visual impression, and will help to put the guy at ease too.

Because, for all their cocky showing off that drives us mad, guys get insecure and nervous too!



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